Notes from the conference Intimate Issues: ( ie. things i learnt )
One of the reasons God gave us sex is so that we can join Him in the incredible privilege of creating life.
Not only does God see the sexual union as good, He sees it as holy.
Sex is a physical union that points us to the spiritual union of the relationship God has with His church. When i have a crummy attitude about it, or a sexual fantasy i defile the picture of Christ and His church.
The place to begin to be a good lover is not in the bedroom, it's on my knees. God give me a new mind, an undivided heart, infuse your perspective of sex into my heart mind and will.
That on my wedding day, i was called to give the gift of my body to my husband. It is his to enjoy and not for me to take back whenever i want.
Our husband's need for sex is an emotional need.
We must stop insisting that words be the only way we connect emotionally with our husbands.
God gave us sexual freedom to enjoy every practice as long as:
It is not prohibited in God's word.
It is beneficial to both.
It does not involve anyone else ( on paper, in the mind, on a screen or in the flesh )
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